A gift for two people sharing one home
Candles and cutting boards cover the kitchen. This covers the rest.
For a housewarming, a wedding or moving in together: 24 short chapters for the everyday moments two people keep running into. Write the gift note below in 60 seconds.
★★★★★
Fantastic for day-to-day operations, not a therapy replacement
“This book will clean up your kitchen counter debates, your calendar clashes, and your morning routines with surgical efficiency. … It’s an operations manual for everyday partners, and at that specific job, it is second to none.”
What’s inside
Short chapters for the everyday moments two people keep running into, each with a reusable page to fill in together. A few of them:
- The kitchen-counter interrogation
- Pause and Return
- The mental load
- Money that protects different things
- Apologies with a next step
- Leaving the party
- Family, friends and in-laws
- Phones and privacy
- 24 short chapters, one everyday moment each
- 24 reusable pages to return to when the moment returns
- A two-minute version of every exercise, for tired nights
Write the gift note
Pick the occasion, a moment they’ll recognise and a tone. The note writes itself.
Write it on a card, or send it when the book arrives. Nothing you type here is stored or sent anywhere.
Is it the right gift for them?
A good gift if they…
- just moved in together, got engaged or married, or bought a first place
- like practical more than poetic
- already joke about the thermostat, the dishes or who leaves the party first
Probably not the right gift if…
- they are going through something serious. A book is no substitute for real support.
- one of them might read it as a hint. A note that makes it a celebration helps; the builder above does that.
- they want romance or deep psychology.
“If you want grand, romantic declarations or a deep psychological analysis of your childhood attachment styles, this isn’t that book.”
On Your Side Again
- Physical book · 24 chapters · 24 reusable pages
- Order 2 or more and get printable A4 worksheet PDFs
- 90-day returns
Buying it as a gift
- It’s a physical book. Enter their address as the shipping address at checkout.
- Two couples on your list? Order 2 books for 20% off, plus the printable A4 worksheet PDFs.
- For a specific date, check the shipping estimate at checkout. We don’t promise delivery dates on this page.
- 90-day money-back guarantee.
What readers say it is (and isn’t)
“This book is the first one that explained cognitive labor without sounding like an attack on my spouse.”
“It reads like an operations manual for two adults trying to coexist without resenting each other.”
“Most self-help paperbacks have about thirty pages of actual insight padded out with repetitive anecdotes and pseudo-academic citations. This book is lean.”
“We eliminated gift anxiety by adopting the “one wish, one surprise, one experience” guideline.”
Cover the rest of the house.
On Your Side Again by Nomi B.: 24 short chapters and 24 reusable pages for two people sharing one home.
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